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I have found that if you stand up to potential scammers they will back down. I have also noted that people looking for a specific item may get listings mixed up and think your listing stated what another's did. If you sent him what your auction description stated then you wont have much to worry about.
I sold an HO scale locomotive that I had multiples of and only removed one from the package to photograph. The one I didnt remove I had forgotten I removed the couplers and draft boxes a few years prior while installing a decoder. I never got around to finishing up the engine and still had the couplers in my tool case. The new owner of the engine sent me a message about the couplers and I told him I would look for them. I was honest about what had happened (I remembered not putting them back on after he mentioned the engine didnt have any). I ended up finding the factory couplers (which were not that great to begin with) and I also sent him a set that I was planning on using on the engine anyway which were much better. The cost to me was minimal as I have hundreds of these couplers laying around but due to my own fault he didnt get any when he should have. Sometimes it is not our fault but if you can make things right then it is always worth a couple $$ for a stamp to send what needs to be sent. If you are being scammed then you can still come out OK so long as you dont lose your head in the process, and promise what cant be given.
Additionally, you say that the map isn't mentioned, so you're good there, but is it in any pictures you used?
It's also worth noting that eBay will go through your communications with the buyer if the case gets escalated to a claim, so you may have an issue insofar as that goes if you specifically told the buyer you'd include the map.
@y2josh 97.1% with 224 feedbacks.
It is not in any pictures I've used for the listing.
That is what I'm mainly concerned about. I know I included it in the package because I specifically went to the store to buy a size 2 bubble mailer so I can fit the map in the package. Does eBay usually side with buyers or sellers with these types of disputes?
But I personally believe there is no margin in asking someone to buy or keep something they don't want.
Have you simply asked him what he wants to be happy? Does he want to return it?
I have a "no returns" policy on eBay, yet I take returns all the time anyway. Almost all the time, when I do I get great feedback, heartfelt thanks, and the sets often come back in perfect condition.
It depends of course on the item and how the buyer asks, but most are very friendly and I find I get good repeat business by treating people right.
Ebay almost always sides with the buyers...
I sold a Transformer Toy to a scammer from China back in August who took 2 weeks to pay me until I filed a payment not recieved case and then he finally paid me, and then 2 weeks later he filed a claim with Ebay and Paypal that he never received the item... I tried to communicate with the buyer, but he would not respond, so I refunded him back his $106.00($91 for shipping and $15 for shipping) I asked the buyer that I would appreciate if he would send me the money back when he receives the item...
I followed the activity of this buyer and one week after I sent him the refund, he was no longer a "registered member" of Ebay, I called Ebay to find out why he was no longer a member and at first they would not give me the info until I told them that I would just email other members whom this guy won auctions of and I would find out one way or the other, they finally told me that he was kicked off of Ebay for abusing the "Item not received" policy
I felt relieved that Paypal would refund my money and Ebay would credit me back the money that I paid them for their fees and finally protect the seller...
I called Paypal and sure enough, he was suspended on their as well... Paypal said that I would be refunded in 24 to 72 hours... Guess what..?
A week went past and NO refund and I then sent several emails asking what was going on and I kept getting replies stating that the case was already closed, so I called up and they told me that the case was reviewed and there was no evidence on my part that the package was ever delivered...
Now this guy was kicked off of Ebay for scamming sellers and suspended from paypal for it and they still didn't take the seller's side...
Ebay also would not refund the fees back to me, so I was out of:
1.) The Toy (worth $90 to $100)
2.) $8 in Ebay Fees
3.) Just under $15 for shipping
If you let this person get away with the scam they'll be free to do it to the next person, on the other hand, they might give you crappy feedback, but you'll get the chance to respond in your own.
If you stick to your guns you rely on paypal doing the right thing by you and that the purchaser doesn't change their story later to state something was missing taht was part of the listing. Again I would hope ebay/Paypal use some common sense here and not jump on the buyers side by default, ignoring all the case facts.
I had someone claim they never received their parcel, and I was overly nice at every stage, just asking them to wait a bit longer than the week they'd allowed Royal Mail to deliver a first class item. I contacted her again to ask if she'd received her item yet, and if not, would she send me an email stating that she hadn't received it so I could use it on my claim against Royal Mail. I never heard from her again - I don't know whether she was a scammer with a conscience, or whether it arrived late and she couldn't be arsed to let me know.
http://pages.ebay.co.uk/businesscentre/returnsandthelaw.html
There are laws that say if the consumer does not receive what they were promised, you must replace or refund, you can't substitute goods.
I guess (but don't know) the question is then if the buyer inquired about the map before he bid for the item, or after the auction was ended? I assume that any personal communications before the end of an auction override the bid description.
Never, ever get into a debate or argument with a customer, they'll win every time, they are the customer! :)
If a customer says something is missing, and you're sure it was there, simply inform them politely on where to look, that you packed it personally, that you are sure it is there. Ask them if the package looks tampered with, as you're happy to file an insurance claim if so.
The goal is to offer a solution to honest customers while giving scammers pause. You keep to the facts, you never accuse, you simply state it like it is and offer some form of help. Always offer help, otherwise even an honest customer will feel blown off.
If you offer to take a return, and you get back less than you sent, you can then issue a partial refund. This looks MUCH better to PayPal, because you have behaved professionally, you accepted a return, found the item returned to be less than was sent, and adjusted accordingly.
Now, instead of the buyer claiming something is missing, the seller is the one with the claim.
Changes the dynamic a lot. No guarantees of course, but it helps.
§2. If the customer happens to be wrong, see §1. I should have known better, but got entangled into "rights" and "wrongs" and "rules" (and I am still interested to know if personal communication overrides bid description ;), but you are absolutely right. Arguments rarely solve any situation. The key message is: Changing the dynamic of a situation is the best thing to do, in any situation.
This is quite easily the best and most helpful post I have ever read on this forum, as far as selling and buying are concerned.
As an aside, the UK distance selling rules were slightly more sensible than just for change of mind, otherwise it would apply to shop bought items. It was to deal with customers not getting an accurate idea of an items size, quality, construction, colour etc from a description or image.